Tuesday, October 1, 2019

Red Bird Devotions #1



My daughter-in-law, Erin, painted a red bird to remind me of God's closeness

GOD IS WATCHING!

Laying in my bed as a little girl, I could discern the evidences of my parents evening routine: the cleaning of supper dishes, the re-folding of the newspaper, the click of the television being turned on.  Knowing that my parents were reassuringly close soothed me and allowed sleep to come quickly. Because they symbolized safety and protection to me, I could rest in the reality of their presence.

As an adult, I no longer live with my parents, but I am part of the household of God.  And sometimes, even though I am part of God’s family, I feel far from his presence. I think we all, at least occasionally, struggle to believe that the The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth.” (Psalm 145:18). But since God’s Word is trustworthy (and our feelings are fickle), we must embrace the reality of his closeness.  How do we do this?


Adopt a Symbol:  When my kids were little, I introduced them to this closeness concept by telling them to look for a red bird (normally a cardinal) when they were outside playing.  When they had sighted one, I would tell them “God is watching!” In this way, the red bird became our “symbol” of God’s omnipresence.  Sometimes, now, when I am walking alone in the woods, God will show me dozens of them!  When I see them peeking out at me from the branches or flying overhead, I feel he is spoiling me with his attentive presence. 

Find a sign in your everyday life that will symbolize God’s nearness.  Not only will spying this special symbol be a delight to your own soul, but if you share it with others, it can become a prompt for them to pray.  My friend Jody chose the Monarch as her symbol, so whenever I see one (or any butterfly for that matter), I thank God for my sweet sister in Christ.


Look for Evidence:  I am not a natural optimist, so I have to train my eyes to see the good.  I tend to notice all the things that are uncomfortable or inconvenient instead of God’s gifts to me.  Lately, I have retrained my brain to see the lavishness of God’s provision by speaking aloud to myself.  If I feel the cool wind on my face as I sit on my porch, I say, “That is good!”  If I fix a hot meal to feed my family, I say, “That is good!”  If I hear the early morning song of a robin outside my window, I say, “That is good!” If my dog prances with joy on his morning walk, I say, “That is good!”  If I finish a difficult writing assignment, I say, “That is good!”  In all of this self-talk, I am reminding myself of the things God has put in front of me that are purely gifts of his grace; gifts like his creation, his provision, my health, my abilities, my freedoms.  God has surrounded us with gifts in our ordinary lives.  If we look around, we will see them and be reminded of how very much he loves us.   

What do you see, hear, or feel right now that can help you focus on God’s lavish grace?


Count your Blessings:  Sometimes I find myself pouting, “Woe is me.”  I look at my situation or season that I am “enduring” and label myself as a victim.  Do you struggle like me?  

 

If you are a Christ-follower, you are not a victim; but you are more than a conqueror through Jesus! (Romans 8:37).  How do we live as conquerors?  We give thanks.  Gratitude is the antidote to my pity party.  As I met with my friend Molly this week, we decided we needed a reboot in the thankfulness department, so we made a plan.  We agreed to each keep a “Blessings Journal” to remind us of God’s love and provision for us.  I started mine, just two days ago, by recording three blessings I noticed each day. Just looking for these blessings throughout my days has changed the way I think about my life.  Rather than feeling sorry for myself, I have ended the previous two days feeling overwhelming gratitude for the life I am living. What a difference it makes when we turn our eyes from ourselves and onto the Giver of all good things!

 



When we adopt practices to remind ourselves of God’s reassuring closeness, we can rest in the security this God-awareness brings.  When we learn to see him in the very ordinariness of our everyday, practicing his presence becomes as natural as breathing.  When we still ourselves long enough to hear his still small voice, we will hear our Father say, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”

Let’s Look
Let’s Listen
Let’s Linger.

Let’s live in his Love.

God is watching!

My heart is not proud, Lord,
    my eyes are not haughty;
I do not concern myself with great matters
    or things too wonderful for me.
 But I have calmed and quieted myself,
    I am like a weaned child with its mother;
    like a weaned child I am content.

Psalm 131:1-2 

Tuesday, September 17, 2019

Doggone it!



Over the weekend, I taught at a Women's Retreat at Hidden Acres Christian Camp outside of Dayton, Iowa.  When I was teaching about #WhosTheBoss, I used an illustration that I had gleaned a few years ago (when I was at wit's end with my naughty puppy) from an online dog trainer called Doggy Dan.  As I was going through the list of training rules on Doggy Dan's website, I was struck by how applicable they were to me when I visualized God as the Master and me as...ahem...the dog. 

Read on for the training rules:

1. Feeding: The dog needs to know that you control the food and will give it when he needs it.  
So, how exactly does this relate to me?  I am able to get my own food pretty much anytime I want and sometimes when I don't even need it.  But, when Psalm 145:15-16 says, "The eyes of all look to you,  and you give them their food at the proper time. You open your hand and satisfy the desires of every living thing," I'm fairly certain, God is not just promising to feed us physically.  In fact, Philippians 4:19 tells us that God has promised to supply all of our needs according to his riches in glory.  This means that, in the same way that my dog needs to trust that I will give him his breakfast in the morning and his supper at night, I need to trust that God will give whatever I need whenever I need it.  Trusting God also means that I will choose NOT to worry about what he is or is not going to give..."Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?"  (Matthew 6:25-26) . If we could see our future clearly and where each and every situation would take us, we wouldn’t need to trust God or make him Boss.
   

2. DangerAlways remain calm and relaxed and let your dog know that you will protect him in the event of danger.  This way your dog will learn to trust your judgment.  
If my dog chooses to disobey me, distrust me, or generally ignore me, I cannot properly protect him from danger--or give him good things. In the same way, if we have chosen to make God our Master, we are eternally secure; our inheritance sure.  If we truly believe that God is, indeed, sovereign, we will trust his judgment on what is good for us.  Nothing takes God by surprise ever!  When we are undone by tests and trials, it is because we are not fully resting in God's protective care.  First Peter 4:12-13 says, "Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed."  As Christ-followers, we should expect that this life will include suffering, but we can also be assured that our eternity will be full of joy!
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3.  Everything on Your Terms: You should initiate everything. Watch out for attention-getting or space-invading.

Oftentimes, when my dog wants me to pay attention to him, he will put his paws (and his sharp claws) on my leg so I will play with him.  He will continue to do this over and over until I reprimand him.  We do this with God too.  No, we don't have paws, and we don't ask God to "play" with us, but we do enter into his presence with our own agenda and seeking our own glory.  And sometimes, we forget that God is our real Master, and we fill his place with selfish ambition.  When we replace God's glory with our own, or put others/things/experiences on his throne, we are inverting his God-ordained order and operating outside of his boundaries.  Isaiah 46:9 speaks for God and says, "I am God and there is no other.  I am God and there is none like me." Those are the terms God has designed and since he "is in the Heavens, [he] does whatever pleases him." (Psalm 115:3).
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4. The WalkDo not move until the lead is loose and your dog is calm.  If your dog is pulling you, turn around.  
Mostly, I don't walk my dog on a leash since we live by the woods where he can freely run.  But, sometimes, when I need to take him somewhere that a leash is required, he tries really hard to be in charge--pulling so hard that he actually cuts off his supply of oxygen.  I am not so unlike my dog.  Guess what? God will choose to accomplish his purposes in spite of us if we, like my dog, think we can walk ourselves.  But, if we remain calm, not "tugging on the lead," then God can accomplish his purposes through us!  Amazing!  When my dog pulls on the rope, he is only hurting himself; when I do the same, I am acting like I know better than God.  I have found a couple of verses that help me remember what my attitude and actions are supposed to look like when I feel my "walk" is not to my liking; Psalm 131:2 "But I have calmed and quieted myself, I am like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child I am content."



But, you know what? Even when we act like our silly pups, we aren't in the "doghouse" with our merciful Master; God still lavishly loves us and wants us show it by letting him lead.  And he tells us that, " In him and through faith in him we may approach God with freedom and confidence " (Ephesians 3:12) because he thinks we are the "pick of the litter!"  
         
Amen and Amen.

“God is too good to be unkind and he’s too wise to be mistaken.  And when we cannot trace his hand, we must trust his heart.”  
~Charles Spurgeon


Wednesday, September 11, 2019

Oblivion

“Satan tries to lull us with the sweet smell and steady thrum of worldliness.” 
-from Girls Gone Wise in a World Gone Wild by Mary Kassian


Like the constant dripping of a leaky faucet, we are steadily inundated with the images, the suggestions, the lies of this world. 

drip.drip.drip.drip.

Over and over, we expose ourselves to selfish thinking, greed, pride and immorality. 

drip.drip.drip.drip.

Again and again, images that offend our Father come before our eyes. Because we have not intentionally chosen the way of the Holy, the way of the world becomes our default.

drip.drip.drip.drip.

Because we are undisciplined, lazy, and satisfied with just existing, we neglect the Glory of God by our forgetfulness.

drip.drip.drip.drip.

With our unfocused eyes and desire for ease, we think it too hard to pursue our Creator.

drip.drip.drip.drip.

We use the health, the money, the power He gives to esteem ourselves.

drip.drip.drip.drip.

The charms of this world dangle in front of our eyes, hypnotizing, mesmerizing, numbing, convincing.

drip.drip.drip.drip.

Deceiving.

drip.drip.drip.drip.

Congratulating ourselves on our independence and self-reliance, we neglect the only thing that can truly make us whole. 

drip.drip.drip.drip.

Forgiveness and redemption through the Blood of the Lamb.

drip.drip.drip.drip.


“My son, pay attention to what I say;
   listen closely to my words.
Do not let them out of your sight,
   keep them within your heart;
for they are life to those who find them
   and health to a man’s whole body.
Above all else, guard your heart,
   for it is the wellspring of life.
Put away perversity from your mouth;
   keep corrupt talk far from your lips.
Let your eyes look straight ahead,
   fix your gaze directly before you.
Make level paths for your feet
   and take only ways that are firm.
Do not swerve to the right or the left;
   keep your foot from evil.”
Proverbs 4:20-27